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Why I Posed Topless -- For Free!

Posted: 05/30/2012 4:51 pm

I'm not in the habit of doing nude photo shoots. Especially at "my age." When my mompreneur friend Karyn Climans, helmet safety advocate and owner of Tail Wags, invited me to take it all off in support of Mothers Against Naked Riding, I agreed.

I'm not an exhibitionist, especially as my once fit body is beginning to sag like an old fence. But, the underlying messages are so important I sucked it up and took it off.


Here's why I agreed to do go topless for the Mothers Against Naked Riding campaign.

First, my kids have finally discovered the joys of biking. On most weekends you'll find all of us peddling along on some path. It's an idyllic image...except for the fact that one of us isn't wearing a helmet. If you guessed it was my husband...you win, but we all lose. It makes me furious that, whenever he can, he "forgets" to put on his helmet. He's sending a hyprocritical message to my kids that THEY need to wear one, but daddy doesn't. To be a role model, we need to model the behaviour we want our kids to emulate. Also, he may actually fall off his bike and smash his head. Stranger things have happened.

Second, I agreed to pose topless for the Mothers Against Naked Riding campaign because I am trying really hard to celebrate my imperfections. That's what makes us all beautiful. When Karyn asked me to bare it all to promote helmet use, the first thing that crawled into my brain was that worm of insecurity. I'm not thin enough, my boobs aren't as perky as they once were, I have rolls of back fat where my muscles used to be.

And then I yelled STOP to that insidious insecurity and changed the message in my head. I'm not perfect but I am PRETTY DAMN GOOD. My boobs may droop but they are HEALTHY and BIG. And my rolls of fat are the price I've paid for living a more sedentary life. SO WHAT?

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Both Karyn and I agreed there would be no airbrushing to create that damned illusion of perfection that makes all of us feel not good enough. So yay for Karyn, Samantha Monpetit-Huynh (from Core Expectations) and me for being beautiful, strong and confident enough to create an playful campaign to make you stop and think. And yay for photographer Kevin Gonsalves who did wonders with lighting.

Added perk: Gorgeous naked men! Here's a Mothers Against Naking Riding video featuring some lickable -- I mean likeable -- guys showing their, ahem, support for wearing helmets.

The photos are fun. The message is serious. Please wear a helmet when you do sports -- that includes your kids, your partner, your friends and you! Feel free to post our posters everywhere. And if you want to take it all off in the name of Naked Riding, you have my permission.

This post was originally published on YummyMummyClub.ca.

 
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01:28 PM on 06/05/2012
This might be a worthwhile campaign if the product being pushed actually worked. The CPSC standard for bicycle helmets is only to dissipate enough energy to prevent a skull fracture in a 12.5 MPH impact. Note that this is not enough to prevent brain damage, which happens at a much lower impact energy than a skull fracture, not is it even effective at motor vehicle impact speeds. Most of the time if you don't have a head injury whan a motor vehicle hits you on a bicycle, you would not have had a head injury without your helmet either, or a very mild head injury.

That being said, I wear my helmet every time I ride, except for those rare cases where I need my head unencumbered to be able to diagnose a noise on my bike.
11:38 PM on 05/31/2012
Yay you, Erica! I saw the posters and they're fantastic. It's important to wear helmets (even us parents trying to look cool - I'm looking at you, Terry!), and I think it's great that you squelched the self-consciousness and went with it. You've got a lot to celebrate, as do so many of us, health, happiness and family the highest among them. Who cares about saggy boobs?
10:45 PM on 05/31/2012
Any of you who value copyrights and patents should be wary of supporting this cause and the woman behind it.

"Tail Wags" routinely sells products that mimic copryrighted characters without having obtained permission.

Some examples include "Kitty":
http://www.tail-wags.com/product_info.php?cPath=15&products_id=116

"Ticked off Bird"
http://www.tail-wags.com/product_info.php?cPath=15&products_id=120

and "Web Master"
http://www.tail-wags.com/product_info.php?cPath=15&products_id=117

Please do not reward this blatant theft of intellectual property!
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12:24 PM on 05/31/2012
I applaud your courage for a good cause.
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Ian Llangan
Your Invisible Sky Friend Is Morally Abhorrent
10:24 AM on 05/31/2012
Erica, ignore the critics. You look absolutely great in the shot and you did it for a good cause. Used to love to see ya on MM (we're about the same age and I used to be a regular MM viewer). I miss the 80s (sigh) but I dare say you are aging spectacularly well! Kudos to you!
09:47 AM on 05/31/2012
Erica, you still look fantastic and the ad is a real attention getter. Good for you.
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09:17 AM on 05/31/2012
I'm sorry, but there is no "good way" to be photographed naked. It is almost always objectifying, and I have heard way too many women use the "I wouldn't normally photograph naked but for this I would because x" as if the rationalization somehow makes it better.
Why did you have to be naked on the cover? What did you gain? What kind of message did you send out? Seriously, what your body looks like doesn't matter, its the act of photographing naked when it is completely irrelevant to the point at hand. This group is just playing up the "naked" part in their name, but that did not have to be there either.
However, I'm sure you made PETA activists proud!
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01:11 PM on 05/31/2012
I'm glad to see you're not a bitter, jealous person who sits at home pounding away on a keyboard trying to make someone else feel bad for being beautiful and successful. Maybe you should put the bucket of chicken down, put the tub of ice cream back in the freezer, open the curtains to let some light in, and then go out for a wobble to the nearest park.
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09:14 AM on 05/31/2012
I've always wanted to pork you Erica and that urge has not diminished with time.
07:05 AM on 05/31/2012
That shot's amazing! You look fabulous and you've got a really great smile! But please look into the science behind bike helmets. Yes, they can prevent a few minor cuts and bruises, but overestimating the protective ability of what is essentially a bit of stiff polystyrene can also cause helmet wearers to take more risks and get into serious accidents that a helmet can't protect against.
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01:02 PM on 05/31/2012
What were they thinking? Imagine, promoting health and safety when we all should be sitting at home in our plastic bubbles typing away on our keyboards making inane comments.
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01:24 AM on 05/31/2012
Erica - thanks for being real to make a point about a serious message.