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Gay Marriage? Yes. Fair Divorces? No.

Posted: 02/27/2012 7:31 am

The federal government last week introduced C-32, the Civil Marriage of Non-Residents Act, legislation prompted by the same-sex divorce case of a lesbian couple in which it was contended -- by the government -- that the marriage was never valid because the union was not recognized in the home jurisdiction of either spouse. Whereas all that is necessary is for the government to withdraw its claim in court, it has instead introduced legislation to clean up its mess but in the process only complicates matters and may even give rise to a Charter challenge.

Simply put, there was never any question that same-sex marriages of non-resident couples were valid until the government's filing before the Ontario courts. The provinces handed out licenses and Canada not only solemnized, but indeed celebrated, these unions. Moreover, Canada sought to market itself as a wedding destination for same-sex couples and trumpeted its marriage equality laws on the international stage.

It was the position of the federal government that non-resident couples were validly married, a view shared by the provinces performing the marriages and certainly by the newlyweds themselves. The government's court filing suggesting otherwise has yet to be fully explained, justified, withdrawn, or amended -- and in fact remains scheduled for arguments this week.

The crux of the government's argument before the court is that marriages are not valid unless they are recognized in the home jurisdiction of the couples -- an idea based in principles of common law that, for the most part, were only relevant in family law with respect to anti-miscegenation (inter-racial marriage prohibition) laws.

Yet, Canada has not strictly enforced these and it was the position of the government in which I served that such arguments would not hold with respect to same-sex couples in light of the Civil Marriage Act, which plainly states, "For greater certainty, a marriage is not void or voidable by reason only that the spouses are of the same sex."

Indeed, lest there be confusion on this point, the contention is that the couple in the case before the court -- comprised of one spouse from the U.S. and one from the U.K. -- cannot get married because neither the U.S. state in question (Florida) nor the U.K. recognizes gay marriage. But to the extent that we are not seeking to invalidate the marriages of all British-American couples performed in Canada, the government is seeking to void this marriage solely on the grounds that the spouses are of the same sex. This is not permitted under the current law, and the government should withdraw this discriminatory argument and thus close the matter on this point.

Instead of resolving the problem before the courts, the government has proposed new legislation. While the proposal makes it even clearer that such couples are validly married and always were, it establishes different divorce procedures for same-sex couples in a way that is highly problematic.

Currently, divorces may be obtained by couples living separate and apart for one year, and sooner in the cases of cruelty or adultery. The new law permits non-resident couples in a state that doesn't recognize their union to divorce only after living separate and apart for one year, thereby removing the option of divorce for cruelty or adultery. This distinction may give rise to a Charter challenge, as arguably, marriage equality must also mean equality in divorce.

The larger problem of the new legislation is that while applications under the Divorce Act may be made by either or both spouses, divorces under the new legislation require an application to be made jointly by both partners. If it is made by one person only, the individual has to get consent or, failing that, obtain a court order from their home jurisdiction stating that their spouse is either unreasonably withholding consent, mentally disabled, or disappeared. In cases of withheld consent it may be impossible to obtain such a Court order, particularly if the jurisdiction does not see the union as valid or is hostile to same-sex marriage.

Rather than complicate matters with its new law, the government should simply withdraw its prejudicial and offensive contentions before the court. Truly, if its position were that such couples are indeed validly married, it would not still be scheduled to make arguments to the contrary before the Ontario courts this week.

 
 
 
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janmB
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03:04 PM on 02/29/2012
The idea that a Mother and adult daughter, two friends who aren't gay, two adult sisters, any two people living under one roof for financial reasons cannot get the same benefits as a mixed married couple or gay couple isn't fair. You think ?
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russell merifield
10:13 AM on 02/28/2012
This is not the first time that the Government of Canada has tried to counter what seems to be the law with narrow arguments like this. There are a number of immigration and refugee cases where the government argues against its own ratification of international conventions. This is not limited to Conservative governments
02:00 PM on 02/28/2012
I & my community are anti-same-sex marriage - There has to be a balance between individual rights and community rights. We cannot just sit back and allow a few to impose their morals on us.
09:00 PM on 02/28/2012
And what community is that pray tell? The one where you get to murder your own daughter because she "dishonoured" your family? Sorry buddy, someone already tried to make that a new Canadian tradition and we shot it down.
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gravescanada
09:54 AM on 02/29/2012
Your "community" is then trying to impose its values on all of Canada. Your argument destroys itself. The bottom line is simple, gay people are entitled to all the same rights as straight people. You cant argue that, it is an immutable fact.
09:27 AM on 02/28/2012
Let me start by saying that I give 100% support to same-sex marriages - find someone you love (and don't mind making your biggest creditor) and tie the knot regardless of gender. But the fact is that the marriages wouldn't simply become valid under the law even if the government simply "withdrew their objection". The reason is that the young DoJ lawyer is RIGHT on the law. The common law principle of law of domicile is binding on us just as it is on other jurisdictions. It, conveniently, is also the very same principle that helps us prevent human rights abuses of a Canadian man flying to another jurisdiction that allows polygamous and child marriages, marrying 4 12 year olds, and then demanding benefits.

Now the law of domicile is a common law principle - so one would assume that statute could explicitly over-ride it. My concern with statute is if they choose to also exempt these unions from the residency requirement under the divorce act. Requiring 12 months of residency helps ensure that individuals that want to take advantage of our (already overworked) family court system pay into it via taxes and contributions to society. It also ensures a cooler head approach that emphasizes reconciliation (which further reduces divorce rates and litigation). At the point at which Canadians are having to wait months and sometimes years to get cases heard, I have no sympathy for foreign litigants parachuting in to try and use our courts without paying for them.
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gravescanada
10:03 AM on 02/29/2012
Getting married in Canada, you have to pay the fee. Getting a divorce in Canada you have to pay the Family court fee's. Your argument is irrelevant.

1.On the filing of an application $157.00

2.On the filing of an answer, other than an answer referred to in item 3 125.00

3.On the filing of an answer where the answer includes a request for a divorce by a respondent
157.00

4. On the placing of an application on the list for hearing 280.00

5. On the issue of a summons to a witness 19.00
01:26 PM on 02/29/2012
And those costs do not pay for the entirety of the court costs then you clearly haven't gone through much litigation. Especially if the divorce is in any way contentious, then you're looking at rapidly escalating costs for the court that are born through other means of funding. In addition, you're contributing to the backlog of court cases that slow down the litigation process for domestic litigants.

You also have to figure in that part of it is beyond simple tax dollars paid, but also contribution to Canadian society as a whole. It is not too much to ask that, should you wish to take advantage of our family court system, that you involve your family in the larger Canadian family.
11:24 PM on 02/27/2012
You Canadians are in for a terrible surprise. Take it from me.

Americans have come to realize that gay marriage results in bizarre, Godless relationships... like mine.

I think folks of Canada should be aware that my gay husband and I were married in Massachusetts. Once hitched by that socialist state, we began working to: ruin Traditional Marriage; recruit children into our drug-filled, sex-addled lifestyle; tear asunder the fabric of society; increase US dependence on foreign oil; and drink the blood of animal sacrifice at the full moon.

This is a serious problem, Canucks. If gays can get married in any old country they feel like... well, it could very well mean The End of Days. No, really. It could.

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05:23 PM on 02/27/2012
I'm not certain that the government has been entirely unreasonable in this matter, given the way the common law has worked, and the way divorce law plays out in practice.

First, the cruelty and adultery grounds are very rarely used any more, but at one time they were (along with impotence) the ONLY legal grounds for divorce. It was rather controversial at the time to introduce the "living separate and apart" grounds, but that's what almost everyone uses now, even in cases where adultery or cruelty exist, since it's a mess having to introduce that kind of evidence. As well, it's common to apply for divorce well before the parties have been apart for a whole year, since by the time the matter is dealt with, that requirement will often have been met.

Second, requiring a joint application is a bit of a chore, but in practice you usually need the other party's involvement in the proceedings anyway, even if it's just to confirm having been served the documents. That's especially a nuisance when the other party lives in a different jurisdiction. So I'm not sure it's completely unreasonable to require joint applications in the case of non-residents. If it's a contested matter with consequences for custody and matrimonial property in the domicile(s) of the parties, then it should be dealt with in the home domicile anyway.