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6 Reasons You May Not Be Losing Weight

Posted: 03/04/2013 12:15 pm

Do you do everything right and still no results?

I have been a personal trainer for a decade now and help dozens of people lose 10,15, 50, and even more than 100lbs. The results come once these 6 problems get solved.

First let's talk about sleep. Everyone needs to pay attention to this weight loss stealing beast. Your body needs 7.5 hours of sleep no maybe about it. Start putting more emphasis on getting to sleep and enjoying the results. Your body and waist line will thank you.

Consistency is the second thief of results. No matter if it's exercise or healthy eating choices. If you are not consistent you won't get results. Over the years I have seen people miss this small details and lose big results. Get a journal and write down when you actually go to the gym, not when it's scheduled.

Often times people have a Monday, Wednesday, Friday schedule in their head. In actuality, they make the gym two of their planned three days. Depending on your intensity, that can be 500-800 calories a week you didn't burn. That's a big deal in the weight loss game. Write it down, meet a friend, hire a trainer to keep you on your toes.

Low intensity, high goals is number three on the list. I get people coming in expecting to lose 10 pounds in a month. That's a very real goal, but the intensity and focus it will take is really hard. In fact, most people are not willing to do what it takes to lose those 10 pounds. I have said it before, it's simple math. Losing 10 pounds of fat means creating a calorie deficit of 35,000 calories. About 9,000 a week, or 1,300 calories a day.

If all you are willing to do is go for a walk (which is fantastic!) you will only burn 250-300 calories. Again, that is great if you are getting up and walking. However, you are still about 900 calories a day shy of your goal.

That means you need to cut calories. Finding a way to make sure portion size is correct, and you are sticking to about 1,600-1,800 high nutrient calories should help you with another 700 calories. The average calorie intake right now in North America is 2750. So losing 10lbs with walking is possible, but it means one hour everyday, and being a consistent healthy eater. It's in the math.

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  • 1. Practice Plate Control

    For starters, try eating off of plates your grandmother used. Next, change your expectation. Restaurants are in business to sell food, and lots of it. It is time to shift our perspective on what a reasonable amount of food is. If you use a smaller plate, you will probably begin to scale back on your portion. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/wonderlane/1449296422/" target="_hplink">Wonderlane</a></em>

  • 2. Fill Up On Fruits And Veggies

    We want to scale back on our meat and potato portions and increase our intake of veggies.<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-lisa-young/healthy-food_b_1665279.html" target="_hplink"> Fruits and vegetables</a> are relatively low in calories and high in fiber. An easy trick is to fill half your plate with fruit and veggies. One quarter of your plate protein (meat, fish, poultry, tofu) and one quarter healthy starch (brown rice, quinoa, barley). <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/usdagov/6963428304/" target="_hplink">USDAgov</a></em>

  • 3. Limit Liquid Calories

    You are better off eating -- and chewing -- your calories than drinking them. Somehow, when we drink our calories, we do not feel full and the calories we just guzzled down do not seem to register. So... we want more. Eat an orange instead of drinking the juice. And steer clear of empty soda calories -- choose seltzer or water instead. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mizzmurray/5848887942/" target="_hplink">lisamurray</a></em>

  • 4. Buy Single Servings

    Steer clear of the jumbo bags of chips, cookies, and nuts sold at price warehouse clubs such as Costco. We all love a good bargain, but beware when it comes to buying food. While you may want to stock up on toilet paper or paper towels, when it comes to food, buy smaller servings. Single-serve bags of chips will really help you practice portion control while snacking. <em>Photo from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Popchips-6-Flavor-Variety-0-8-Ounce-Single/dp/B001RVFDOO/ref=sr_1_12?s=grocery&ie=UTF8&qid=1346881740&sr=1-12&keywords=100+calorie+packs" target="_hplink">Amazon.com</a></em>

  • 5. Order A Small

    In many cases you have a choice between a small, medium, or large. Order the small size whenever possible. And don't be fooled by the label; even a drink labeled small, for example, can be big. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sylvar/5111726141/" target="_hplink">sylvar</a></em>

  • 6. Avoid Your Triggers

    If you can't stop at one serving of chips, then don't even start. Choose a treat you CAN control.

  • 7. Don't Snack Out Of The Bag

    Read the food label, serve yourself one portion, and put the rest away. Practice this for chips, nuts, pretzels and other treats. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/the-travelling-bum/5864314419/" target="_hplink">The Travelling Bum</a></em>

  • 8. Don't Be Fooled By Health Halos

    Just because a food is labeled organic or trans fat-free doesn't mean you can eat as much as you want. Calories are still calories. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/fruitnet/1064944536/" target="_hplink">Eurofruit, Asiafruit & Americafruit</a></em>

  • 9. Skip All-You-Can-Eat Buffets

    They may be a bargain for your pocketbook, but not for your health. If you must visit a buffet, do a full lap around the buffet before choosing your selection and wear tight-fitting clothes (you'll probably eat less). <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/yakobusan/6368766007/" target="_hplink">@yakobusan Jakob Montrasio 孟亚柯</a></em>

  • 10. Share, Share, And Share

    Restaurant portions are huge. Order one main dish and an extra veggie dish or salad and share both. And order one dessert for two or three people and you will still feel satisfied.

  • 11. Eat Like A Parisian

    Eat slowly, savor your food, and enjoy your company.

Not having fun. Have you ever heard the expression "time flies when you are having fun"? Well, it goes for exercise as much as anything. Going to the gym if you hate it becomes old news fast. It means you probably won't be doing it in a few weeks.

New Years resolutions fail all the time because people lose their fun. If you find something that burns calories, takes you away from the TV and snacking, then you will have something. To succeed at weight loss means you have made it routine. To make it routine you have to like what you are doing. Include your friends, co-workers and family. Find the positives -- eat right for energy, and enjoy weight loss and a whole lot of great things. Fun is the root of fitness success.

Skipping breakfast. You need to put food in your stomach first thing when you wake up. It has to be high vitamin and mineral content, high antioxidant, contain protein and fiber, and it has to taste good. I have found smoothies to be a solid go to for this. Some people with more time in the day are successful with an egg-based morning breakfast. What ever you chose, do it every morning and make sure you start your day by kick starting your metabolism.

Portion size is the absolute most important thing in weight loss. It's why I left it to the end. If you can forget everything else, just focus on eating smaller portions. I do corporate seminars and I say it all the time. You would never go back to a restaurant or recommend it to friends if they actually gave you a proper serving size.

If you are struggling with weight loss, or if you are doing everything right but can't seem to get the weight off, buy a scale. Not for you to step on, but for your food. Look at the serving size on the container, or Google the amount of calories in your food. If your goal is 1,800 calories over four meals, you have 450 calories at each meal. Or two big 700 calorie meals and two small 200 calories meals.

The problem is, too many people miss the labels and eat too much of a good thing. Don't forget that little candies and tasting foods are still calories. Sounds silly, but it's true. Three hard candies are 60 calories. In two months, that is a pound of fat. Make sure you are looking at your calories, sticking to small portions and learning how to eat healthy!

My mission is to make this nation healthy, One Fit City at a time. I'd love your feedback, what works for you, and how you have lost the weight. Part of my encouragement to readers is to offer a vacation giveaway I couldn't offer it without the support of Fareconnect.com. It's a daily challenge to reach your health goals. Don't let small things stop you along the way. Keep the big picture in mind, your health.

 

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joeythes
03:19 PM on 03/06/2013
Great article. I lost 60lbs two years ago and have kept it off my avoiding poison like sugar (it's everywhere!) and getting enough sleep. When your body gets enough sleep every night it has energy to sustain it during the day. Without proper rest, your body tires in the afternoon and calls for more energy - which leads us to snack or overeat portions. With enough sleep, I am not hungry and it is easy and filling to eat smaller portions.
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Jordan Cieciwa
08:28 PM on 03/06/2013
Congrats! 60lbs is an awesome accomplishment. You are so right about the sleep. It goes right down to the hormones released when we get enough sleep. Those hormones, and fatigue are the major cause of over eating and sugar cravings. Keep it up! Now that you are in a good place, start looking to perfect the diet. Look to balance your bodies pH. Grab most of your foods that are high alkaline. It will increase your energy even more! Got questions, find my contact at www.onefitcity.com!
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joeythes
06:08 PM on 03/08/2013
Thanks Jordan! I will try your diets there, they are simple and are the foods I enjoy eating. Can you give me some examples of high alkaline foods? Enjoying your HP posts, thank you!
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joeythes
03:14 PM on 03/06/2013
Great article. I lost 60lbs two years ago and have successfully kept it off mainly due to eating proper, unprocessed foods and avoiding poisons like sugar and white bread. And of course, getting lots of sleep. It might help folks understand that the reason sleep is important in weight loss is because, with the right amount of sleep, one's body has energy for the whole day. Therefore, the body is not calling for more energy - a demand usually met by snacking or eating larger portions.If you get hungry, drink water and eat fruit.
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cityprole
old,sly, crafty,arty, leftie
05:10 PM on 03/05/2013
You might b e a personal trainer but your emphasis on calories does nothing for your awareness of all the factors that create a successful weight loss plan
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Jordan Cieciwa
09:12 PM on 03/05/2013
Not sure what you mean? The goal of a weight loss program is to burn more than you consume. To maintain health, you need to eat enough healthy, nutrient dense food and balance that with having fun and exercise. Your body functions strictly off of calories, vitamins minerals consumed from food, and make sure you are eating a wide range of healthy foods. What would you improve/focus on? Exercise burns calories, food contains calories. I guess I do avoid the psychology points, and socioeconomic... but that's not the point of my writing. I stick to my expertise as a trainer. My goal is to make a happier healthier Nation. Doing my part by encouraging and giving ideas I have found to be successful for a large population. Always open to suggestions.
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cityprole
old,sly, crafty,arty, leftie
04:19 PM on 03/07/2013
After a long lifetime of trying everything possible,  I have found that carbs (not the good ones) have more impact on weight loss than .calories...
03:40 PM on 03/05/2013
Great article. I especially liked what you said portion size. I have a little scale in my kitchen and I weigh everything I prepare at home. I've lost 50 pounds in the last 5 months and there really is no secret aside counting calories. People have said it for years, but it never really clicked with me until I actually started weighing my food and seeing exactly what I was eating.
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Jordan Cieciwa
08:43 PM on 03/05/2013
That is FANTASTIC! Congrats to the weight loss... how much more energy do you have? It's the best thing you have ever done for yourself. And you are right, it's the counting calories that matters. Thank you so much for replying. It makes my day reading these positive responses.
10:08 PM on 03/05/2013
Thanks! I still have a lot more weight to go (started at 350lbs, hoping to get to 200-220lbs or so), but I agree that it's the best thing I've ever done for myself.

I find I have much more energy now than when I started, which shocked me. I would have thought less food = less energy, but nope! I feel really rested in the mornings.
01:58 PM on 03/05/2013
I find that portion sizes matter very little, as long as it's not junk that I'm shovelling into my mouth. If it's a veggie or fruit salad, without tons of high calorie add-ins, I can eat very large portions and still lose weight.

If I eat gluten or dairy with any regularity, or any junk food at all, I've seen pounds of weight gain, sometimes overnight.

Also, avoid commerical juices or pop. Lots of empty calories. And while I don't eat a lot of meat, I eat good sized portions when I do.

Trying to tell someone to lose weight by eating tiny portions instead of eliminating processed foods, doesn't work, in my experience. At least not for any length of time. People just end up feeling like they're being deprived.
07:35 AM on 03/05/2013
It's not rocket science. Stay away from deep fried food, sugar, high fat foods and get more fiber in your diet. Eat fresh and avoid processed food. Portion control is important but it's more about proportions. If you have a plate heaped with salad and fresh vegies you're doing well. We don't need huge hunks of red meat and animal protein. When you have meat a portion the size of the palm of your hand is sufficient and it should be grilled rather than fried.
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:03 PM on 03/05/2013
Agreed, I like the way you said it. Proportion, not portion. If North America would start to realize how much we over eat(even if it's "healthy") I think we would be in a better place. At the same time as tackling what we eat. Smaller portion sizes, and less red meat. We are on to something!
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Laguna
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01:32 AM on 03/05/2013
Portion control is the usual refrain of the dietary professionals who have been corrupted by the food industry itself. More important is what you eat. Always read the labels on anything you buy and make sure that sugar or sugar-like substances are the fifth ingredient or more on the label. Buy vegetables, fruits, and only small amounts of milk or meat for your diet (or use substitutes). Do not drink soda or diet soda, drink water. Walking, swimming, and strength-training at moderate levels throughout one's life will do it for most of us.
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:07 PM on 03/05/2013
Not sure that I have been corrupted by anyone. I shop from the outside of the super market. If it's not fresh I don't eat it for the most part. I like where you are going with this. Staying away from the clear cut "bad" foods and getting moderate exercise. Too many trainers out there try to force their beliefs on everyone. Not many people are interested in HIT training and perfectly clean eating. Remember, these blogs are little portions of what I believe. Hard to get the whole philosophy across in a short story. Thanks for commenting, I do appreciate it.
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Laguna
Economist/Philosopher
02:06 AM on 03/06/2013
There is a book by Marion Nestles called Food Politics on this corruption whereby people in the food industry (dietitians, etc.) are funded and paid by industry, their trade group, their study groups, etc., sort of like what the tobacco industry did with the American Medical Association years ago.  I did not mean you specifically, although you may be influenced without noticing.  Appreciate your contributions.
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Jennifer Hammond-Powell
blogger, freelance writer and health professional
11:20 PM on 03/04/2013
straight forward, and to the point. I work in health care and everyone wants to lose weight, and find a magic pill. No amount of raspberry ketones is a substitute for following the basics, which is what is contained in this article. Thanks!
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:09 PM on 03/05/2013
Your comment absolutely made my day. Most people put stand offish comments. I really do appreciate this one. Very kind of you to take time out of your day and write a complement. Thanks Jennifer!
03:32 PM on 03/04/2013
http://www.youtube.com/rockybarragan I lost over 133 pounds and have kept it off for over 6 years. Check out my YouTube Channel where I post Healthy Recipes, Grocery Hauls, Fitness DVD Reviews and Personal Vlogs. Hope to see you there!
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:10 PM on 03/05/2013
I went and loved it! you got a new subscriber.. not that you needed it with the 5,100 other fans. You are doing great things! Big congrats to you, great work with the weight loss. That's inspirational.
03:24 PM on 03/04/2013
Times when I have had the best success at weight loss/muscle gain have been when I pre-prepare the right foods on a Sunday for the following week (at least for lunches and suppers). That way you are able to take out the proper pre-cooked/seasoned portions and heat them up quickly, which saves you time to workout and still have an after work life AND get to bed at a reasonable time. Good luck and stick to the outside, raw ingredient isles of the grocery store.
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Nothing is forever.
10:31 PM on 03/04/2013
Agreed. Because this way the portion control is more exact. The other great tip here is buy a single portion of snack food. Good idea.
08:00 AM on 03/05/2013
You can just measure out a quantity of snack food put it in another bowl and put the big bag in the cupboard. I eat snacks 1 day a week as a treat and that's how I do it.
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:11 PM on 03/05/2013
I am picking up what you are putting down. Great comment. It's so much easier with a plan! Shopping is also easier when you get the raw stuff. Thanks for taking the time to post this!
02:14 PM on 03/04/2013
Awesome. Thank you, you just took all my worries and questions and reduced it to a very simple equation. Not just to lose weight, but also how to keep it off.
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Jordan Cieciwa
03:12 PM on 03/05/2013
feel free to ask questions, here to help as much as possible. Hope it really does help!