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Up in Smoke! Saying Adios to Cigarettes

Posted: 01/17/2012 9:42 am

In recognition of National Quitting Smoking week, two of Huffpost's young contributors, Miranda Frum and Daniel Alexandre Portoraro, have volunteered to quit smoking and keep a daily journal about it. Readers: Support them! And please share your own struggles about trying to kick an addiction, whether it was cigarettes or anything else.

Miranda
I have been a smoker for seven years. I'm 20 years old. I started quite young. Not so much out of peer pressure, but out of a desire to be thin. I have attempted to quit smoking numerous times -- the first couple of times I tried to quit were because my grandmother was upset by my smoking, but not because I really especially wanted to. I quit again in March of 2011, but due to a large group of friends who were mostly smokers, and lots of drinking (as the late Christopher Hitchens said: a cocktail and a cigarette go hand in hand with the other), I failed. I do however now desperately want to quit smoking. The habit is getting expensive (depending on the brand, some $9-13 dollars a pack!), and my family members are saddened every time I light up. My grandmother, who used to be an avid smoker, told me she quit smoking at 25 (she looks fabulous now, you would never know she ever smoked cigarettes); she said if I wanted to have any beauty left as an old lady I should quit before then. My goal is to be completely off cigarettes by the time I'm 23 (AT THE LATEST). But as it's National Non-Smoking week I thought, why the hell not give it a try? Today, so far I've had five cigarettes, an unusually low amount for me (normally a pack a day smoker). I figured by smoking less frequently, I might have a better shot at going cold turkey. Let's see how this goes...

Daniel

I lit my first cigarette when I was sixteen which isn't so much a long time ago as it was a long time to finally do it. You see, I've wanted to smoke since I was a child; the ideal consumer who bought into all the Hollywood-manufactured fanfare, and the mystique of the Marlboro Man. Of course, like every young person, I thought "cancer won't happen to me" using the logic that it's well, me.
But now it's National Non-Smoking Week, and as Miranda says, the habit is getting expensive (something that's easier to appreciate for young people than the c-word). And besides, there's a litany of other health risks that go hand in hand with those coffin nails that "taste good, just like a cigarette should," so why not try quitting? There are countless reasons to, least of all one self and the fears of loved ones that would be assuaged. Besides, isn't it also a sign of maturity to forgo a habit in favour of prolonging one's time of maturity?

So this week, I'm going to kick the habit. But I mean kick it, because there's one thing to say one's quitting and write a series about it, and a completely different thing to write that series knowing that "No, even when this is done, you still won't be able to light that celebratory smoke at the end of it."

However, unlike Miranda, I'm not doing this gradually, day by day; I'm going to attempt to quit the habit cold turkey. I imagine this will be unpleasant for me; but far moreso for those I'm surrounded by. So in the interminable words of All About Eve's Margo Channing: "Fasten your seatbelts, it's going to be a bumpy night". If only it were going to be a single night...

 

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12:26 AM on 01/18/2012
You will thank yourself! And, you will wonder how you ever walked around smelling that bad without noticing!!
It took me several tries to quit, so don't get discouraged if you slip up - Just keep trying
08:27 PM on 01/17/2012
One day I looked at my cigarette and I said to myself "Either you are the boss or I am."' I quit drinking coffee for a couple of years since I always smoked when I had a coffee and I have to say it was pretty easy to quit. Every now and then I add up the money I save by not smoking and the amount is huge. I love to think of the tobacco companies and their lies not getting one red cent from me.
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Leslie James Dalzell
One day at a time
07:25 PM on 01/17/2012
Quitting smoking is one of my proudest accomplishments! It's been just over 2 years and I thank my self everyday! I smoked for 30 yrs and decided that smoking past 45 is no longer sexy or cool! So to any one contemplating quitting go for it! If your really there it will be easy!
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Planarama
Common sense will one day prevail.
07:21 PM on 01/17/2012
Well, this explains why Ms. Frum was getting all in a huff about drug addicts getting free pipes while she has to pay for nicotine patches.

Good luck, Miranda. Maybe, if you can successfully quit, you will have a little more sympathy for those trying to get off of crack. I doubt it, though.
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ljkcan
I don't let geographical borders limit my thinking
07:05 PM on 01/17/2012
I started smoking at 15 and I quit cold turkey in 1988 and never went back.

You might have to change your habits a bit that morning coffee without the cigarette will get better in time but it is well worth it. Good luck to both of you.
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Patrick Flannery
Editor, nerd, dad.
05:16 PM on 01/17/2012
I really like smoking. It's social and fun. It would be really nice if we could smoke in bars again, but I guess that's never coming back.

I find it's not hard to avoid smoking too much if you just restrict it to social sitations and don't get in the habit of smoking around home.

I think young people should go ahead and enjoy life and leave worrying about death until they are older. To me it's sad to see two young people in their one and only opportunity to be carefree getting roped in by a bunch of handwringing busybodies who have already had their fun and now want to tell others what to do. Smoking is not going to kill you when you are 22. For goodness sake, enjoy your youth while you have it.
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murphyj87
03:41 PM on 01/17/2012
I quit in 1979 at the age of 29, pretty much cold turkey except for a few lozenges for the first couple of weeks. Although I developed a lung problem at age 53, it was employment related, not smoking related.
12:20 PM on 01/17/2012
You have to go cold turkey, period. You have to get the drugs OUT of your system if you want a fighting chance.

It's been over 4 years since I last lit a cigarette and if there's one thing i know for certain, it's that quitting smoking is a process. I "quit" several times before actually quitting. I just got sick and tired of feeling like a prisoner EVERY time i lit up.

Anyway, good luck to those quitting, especially first-timers, hang in there!
03:36 PM on 01/17/2012
I don't know if one method works better than any other. It's highly addictive and profitable for the tobacco companies. My sister would agree that a cigarette goes hand in hand with a drink. Maybe one approach would be to drink less and go to bars less.
12:17 PM on 01/17/2012
You have to go cold turkey, period. You have to get the drugs OUT of your system if you're going to kick the habit. You can't do that by simply "smoking less". Nicotine doesn't work that way.

It's been over 4 years since I lit a cigarette and if there's one thing I know for certain, it's that quitting cigarettes is a process!

I "quit" several times before actually quitting and one day I'd just had enough. I was sick and tired of being a smoker. I felt like a prisoner, chained to the DuMaurier company.

I wonder if I tallied up all the money I've saved over the last 4 years....hmmmmm.....maybe I can justify a vacation this year! woo-hoo!

Anyway, good luck to ANYONE trying to quit. Especially first-timers, hang in there!
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piceaglauca
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11:47 AM on 01/17/2012
$5000 a year? What kind of a job saupports thhis habit? Other peoples?