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Did This Drag Queen Go Too Far?

Posted: 12/18/2012 11:20 am

I've always thought drag was beautiful; inherently radical, expressive, fun, campy...recently I went to Woody's and saw Toronto's famous drag queen Donnarama performing "When I Grow Up" (Pussycat Dolls) and "Firework" (Katy Perry) in what she thinks passes as a burka, a bindi (which doesn't make sense but OK), and a set of bombs attached to her abdomen. To up the ante, there was some actual fire on stage, coupled with gestures (or "dance moves") that mirrored gun violence and recurring explosions.

I was outraged. I looked around to see how other people were reacting. They were recording it on their phones and coming up to Donnarama to tip her. Reward. Lots of social reward. That was the community and audience response to blatant racism and Islamophobia. To top it off, she ended by saying "Happy Hanukkah."

I know I'm not the only one that was angry and knows very clearly how problematic this is. Are we fags really ok with this? I don't think this would be in the least acceptable in any other context. Interesting how white gay hegemony allows for so much more racism than mainstream communities.

I spend a lot of time working in the LGBT community, doing counselling and HIV-related work. I care about this community. I've always thought highly of queers in Toronto and thought we had a lot to offer. Tonight I learned that what we have to offer most is complacency and that we're comfortable reinforcing white supremacy.

I have a lot of respect for Donnarama's craft most of the time. She's creative and pushes boundaries. And I think playing with gender, race and class will inevitably become pillars for drag commentary and for performance in general so I don't think we need to be completely PC all the time.

However, I've seen many queens do it with more nuance. That is, another queen to play off of, reading back and forth, an understanding of playfulness, etc. And by all means BE OUTRAGEOUS but take a moment to identify which dominant system ought to be poked fun at in performance and be aware of your own race and what you can get away with saying.

A white queen should know that this is not funny and that it is super problematic; if she doesn't know that (i.e. she can't recognize that she and her audience are white and making fun of people who are not), she's done a huge discredit to herself and her career...and the gay community.

This performance is nothing short of hate speech, racism, and violence. Yes, sitting in my chair, sinking in deep, and looking around to see the mix of applauding and blank stares I couldn't have interpreted this event as anything other than an act of violence.

A community icon basically assaulted me (and the entire queer Muslim/racialized table I was at) and then my queer community sent me the message that this was okay. It's okay that my people are being depicted this way; that we're at the butt end of a racist joke with a primarily white audience. (NO, there was no subtle nuance with a more positive underlying meaning).

Before anyone responds to this and says, "maybe it was just a joke" -- delete me from your friend list. The rest of you, I think real social justice needs to take up more space in the gay community. This community is for all fags.

Boycott Woody's. Boycott Buddies. That's where she performs. Demand an apology and from the establishments, demand some accountability.

 

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I've always thought drag was beautiful; inherently radical, expressive, fun, campy...recently I went to Woody's and saw Toronto's famous drag queen Donnarama performing "When I Grow Up" (Pussycat Doll...
I've always thought drag was beautiful; inherently radical, expressive, fun, campy...recently I went to Woody's and saw Toronto's famous drag queen Donnarama performing "When I Grow Up" (Pussycat Doll...
 
 
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10:22 AM on 02/07/2013
So you applaud when she "is creative and pushes boundaries." just as long as that boundary doesn't involve you or some aspect of you. EVERYONE has a touch of racism in them. If we can't laugh at ourselves, and the stereotypes that surround us, then the terrorists win (sorry couldn't resist)... So stop your bitching and laugh... I'll never understand people that tell me I have to change my behaviour just so you don't feel uncomfortable... Do you tell the LGBTQ youth you work with that maybe they should be straight so they don't make their parents uncomfortable or are you the only person that we are not allowed to offend?
11:17 PM on 12/21/2012
Everyone is racist. Everyone loves stereotypes and pushing it on people and if you say you are completely unbiased you are down right lying. I believe that she might have gone too far in her performance because I guess drags is supposed to be fun for all, but to call this a case of rewarding white supremacy you are putting focus on the wrong issue. THIS is a case of an individual who is ignorant and insensitive but to lable all white people by saying its inflating white supremecy is just racism in itself. She does have the right to do what she wants as an artist though. In my opinion, all comedy routines in our day of age seem to be racy.... and white people are targeted just as much as Muslims. Comedy is comedy, its not for everyone.. dont pay her if you dont like it.

And as for white supremacy, white people are now a minority in Canada, and in the world-- if you are still boo hooing about the power of white people then suck it up princess -- make your own power because you "outnumber" us.

Rahim, just because you work with the community and help aids preventative causes doesnt make you a saint.. and also doesnt make you void of racist opinions.
08:06 PM on 12/19/2012
Frankly I get a kick out of this number mostly because the americans ( and the news as a whole ) has us living in the McCarthyist world again. We see terrorists in our soup,its insane. It's A strip and Cavity searched to get on a plane , If you try to visit the Taj, a medical scan. I find this number is great satire ... soonwe will all be cavity searched to get into Woody's in T.O, Celebrities in Vancouver, The Texas Lounge in Calgary Or even Prince George's Lambda Lounge.I can tell you haven't ever talked to Donna. She's the last person to be racist. Numbers that cross the line have their place and buddy you were in it. Also why the personal attack on her in such a public way without going to her and talking about it.?This person ( like all queens) is an Artist. Don't like their art , then hey stay out of her venue, slamming her as a racist over YOUR INTERPRETATION of artwork wtf is that ? Next you will have the Sistine Chapel repainted because you claim it's racist by exclusion? Or HEY! Let's Jail the Group of seven ! they paint Only Canadiana! Donna's stuff is racy and everyone knows, she makes people think. As for drag and controversy or offending people ,BAHAAHHAAHAHA You went to a drag show and expected an I Love Lucy episode now THAT my friends is VERY funny!
09:46 PM on 12/20/2012
ElectronicaYCG -- Brava!!!
07:25 PM on 12/19/2012
This is insane !!!
07:22 PM on 12/19/2012
Come on guy, so what he used the word "fag "....I don't know if people are purposely focusing on that word to divert attention from the real issue here. If you are not a fag, then you aren't.
The fact is that no one should tell Muslims how to process or react to satire or comedic materials made at their own expense. Of course the author is using the word " boycott and demand an apology" as we often do whenever a straight man makes a joke pretending to " gay people being pedophiles who transmit decease to kids ''' Please be careful not to use a double standard here . Maybe this is an opportunity to open up a dialogue in an inclusive manner ....People making comments such as " if you don't like don't go there " do not contribute anything to the dialogue, they are only using the same argument homophobic uses against us all the time, it frankly just a lazy cop out, instead of confronting the issue.
There a lesson to be learned by the establishment ( Woody's), the audience and the performer here.I feel as a pioneer and a historic place within the community, Woody's should seize the opportunity to address this in more inclusive and professional manner, at least for a PR standpoint ...Maybe that will be a start
( I know... don't get fussy about my English, i just learn recently)
03:25 AM on 12/20/2012
Blah blah blah
04:01 PM on 12/21/2012
I've seen a lot of your comments, Devon, still waiting on one that is actually crafted out of intelligence. Surprise me.
12:49 PM on 12/19/2012
Boycott Woody's. Boycott Buddies. That's where she performs. Demand an apology and from the establishments, demand some accountability. I suggest instead of that we Boycott The Huffington Post until Mr. Thawer makes an apology for using the word "FAG". I am a proud GAY man not a FAG. I find that term much worse that anything I have ever see Donnarama do on stage.
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12:34 PM on 12/19/2012
So you like it when she pushes boundaries but only if they're not yours.

Back when I was young and rode my motorcycle a lot and liked my riding leathers I used to bristle when the drag queens would loudly tell me that my riding leathers were not, to my surprise, protection from pavement but "a form of drag" and would gleefully tell me I was "a leather queen."

Then I learned to lighten up and just let people do their thing and not let it bug me.

So. Be me.
12:33 PM on 12/19/2012
First, referring to the GLBTTQ community as fags is problematic, and could be interpreted as internalized homophobia, and might be reflective of the author own internalized tension between his faith and his own sexual identity. I would suggest the author to reflect his relationship with his faith and sort out what he want to keep. Second, the author is forgiving that through history drags have been a major source of contestation about multi sources of oppression in particular the intersection between gender, sexual identity and desire. What is more of offensive? Accepting women dress as ghost because religious extremist are believing that women are source of evil temptation to men? An accepting violence against women based on religious beliefs? Accept censorship based on fear of offending someone with a different point of view and being threat of boycott? worse an act of violence?
Are we not sending Canadian soldiers in Afghansistan to fight against a regime that promote subjection of women to men? A regime that do not hesitate to attack girls in school? Burn women if they don't give birth to a male heir? kill women for men' honours? If you associated the "Drag queen entertainment" to islamamphobia because he/she mocks the burka, the Taliban and war. I would consider that you are missing the point. It is an act of courage, an act of freedom, not to say a call for collective awakening to refuse collectively any religion that infrange our Charter of Rights in our country.
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11:45 AM on 12/19/2012
Rather curious that my comment is still not posted ... could it be that I stated I was a straight white women? hmmm
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10:15 AM on 12/19/2012
As a straight white girl, I found your use of the term "hegemony" to be offensive. ;) I suppose we accept Russell Peters' humour because he isn't white but if he was it would be Andrew Dice Clay syndrome all over again. Perhaps, you should run for the position of "barometer for all LGBT minority humour". Hmm, on second thought, maybe I will.
08:34 AM on 12/19/2012
As a fellow drag performer of over 30 yrs ,, i've seen this happen many many times ,,, across canada and the usa ,,,, we as a minority (glbt) have been persecuted for so many years that we switch things around and make fun of the reality that surrounds us either be it by live comedy or lipsyncing a crazy mash up ,,,, eg: a line in one of older routine from the 60's (a time when political correctness was obsolete) upset a large group of people of asian descent ,, they complained and i was asked to never do the routine again ,,, NOT ,, I STILL DO THE ROUTINE ,,but i have edited out the line which was pointed out as being racist ,,, i took the bashing for a comedians recording from the past ,,, what gets me is why did you take this so personal ,, to be honest i thought it was quite funny ,,, i put aside the hate and fear and laughed ,,, if you're gonna start bitching about small things like this then you might as well stay home ,, its just a needle in a very large haystack of many other things that ARE more important ,,, if you dont like the channel you're watching , dont you usually change it and watch something else ,, i'm no racist i dont think donnarama meant for anyone to feel offenended ,,, enjoy your holidays ,,felis navidad
08:15 AM on 12/19/2012
I think what Donnarama was good and I think it was funny. It is good to mock religious faith. Any allegations of white supremacy are nonsense. Also will somebody please tell me how a gay guy can practice Islam? Didn't Mohamed tell people to kill gay guys. Something isn't adding up here.
08:35 AM on 12/19/2012
Not only that, its called performance art and it has a message, its a commentary on current events. better than a boring queen on stage dancing in a leotard to madonna. work that Burka swag Donnarama
07:45 AM on 12/19/2012
I don't know why people think anything should go in comedy like it is some sacred space. If it is hateful it shouldn't be there.
06:38 AM on 12/19/2012
Dear Rahim, Donnarama offended you? Get in line! As a member of the LGBT community here in Toronto, a media personality and a stand-up comic, I am not surprised by Donnarama's performance. She is an innovative, forward thinking performer who transcends drag. Is what she did offensive? Sure. But comics and performers have been offending people for decades. It's part of what we do. The only way they know what they're doing isn't working is if you stop watching. Audience indifference is death to a performer. Keep in mind, performers aren't politicians and don't often think things out beyond the joke. If she'd done it just to be offensive and hurt people then I would be offended too but she simply thought something was funny and it turned out not to be. To call a boycott of Donnarama AND of Woody's AND Buddy's is as ignorant a statement to me as you felt Donnarama's performance was to you. Merry Christmas!
08:36 AM on 12/19/2012
Art isn't subject to political correctness. Im proud of her and gonna steal this routine. #burkaswag
03:35 PM on 12/19/2012
Art can be racist...
04:09 AM on 12/19/2012
Let me just start with the fact the Being a man dressed as a women is by far the first and far most violation that guy does.... he doesn't need to be black, white, Muslim or green in order to portaray any of those, as much as he doesn't need to bee a women to be allowed to get into a dress...

Your critisisem should be pointed towards the whole world of Comedy... drag is just a part in it.