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Because of the Environment, I May Not Have Children

Posted: 07/31/2012 12:13 pm

Growing up, I never doubted that I would someday become a mother.

But over the past few years, I have begun to question whether or not I should ever have children.

It has nothing to do with anxiety about supporting a child on a writer's income -- that could be overcome with help and hard work. It has nothing to do with a lack of maternal urges -- my uterus twinges every time I smell a baby's hair. It has everything to do with my fears about climate change and how different my child's life will be from my own.

I am not exactly an environmental crusader. I turn off the lights whenever I leave a room. I use public transportation. I recycle. For a long time, I thought this was enough.

It's not.

No decent parent would knowingly put his or her child in situations where they would experience fear, discomfort and pain. But this is exactly what we are doing by not acting immediately to lessen our impact on this planet.

In the latest issue of Rolling Stone, leading environmental journalist Bill McKibben uses the undeniable power of numbers to explain that we are quickly marching into doomsday. He writes:

We have five times as much oil and coal and gas on the books as climate scientists think is safe to burn. We'd have to keep 80 percent of those reserves locked away underground to avoid that fate. Before we knew those numbers, our fate had been likely. Now, barring some massive intervention, it seems certain.

I am beginning to understand that "alarmism" is a word people like to use when they would prefer not to think about inconvenient truths.

We must understand and accept is that climate change is not happening at some unspecified time in the future. From droughts and wildfires across the United States to the breaking off of an iceberg twice the size of Manhattan just last week, climate change is here. We are all bearing witness to it. It is happening.

What will it take to spur action from world leaders? Do we need an environmental Pearl Harbour? Will it take New York City under water? Smog alerts on Christmas Eve? How about a failed North American corn crop that will spike food prices to astronomical levels and make widespread hunger a reality for those of us who have never truly felt it?

When you are speeding towards a brick wall, it's a bad idea to wait until the last possible second to slam on the brakes.

Fossil fuels are very much the enemy. President Obama squandered a golden opportunity by giving the automobile industry bailouts without this disclaimer: they would receive the billions of public dollars only if General Motors, Ford and Chrysler acted in the interests of our children -- by creating and implementing vehicles using only sustainable fuel sources.

But every day, world leaders are choosing the economy over the environment. As McKibben puts it, you can't have both.

Personally, I choose unemployment over extinction.

We need decisive leadership and action now. It will not come from the Canadian prime minister, as Stephen Harper is unashamedly bedfellows with Big Oil. It will not come from our minister of the environment, Peter Kent, a vocal proponent of the oil sands. Oh, Canada! Stephen Leacock himself could not have penned a parody this absurd.

I look to President OBama and other world leaders to make this change. I ask for an emergency environmental summit in exchange for our votes this November.

As a species, we must adapt or die. World leaders must scrap our current system by penalizing and taxing the fossil fuel industry within an inch of its life and using that money to grow the sustainable energy economies. By continuing on as we have always done, we are digging ourselves into an ever-deeper hole that our children will never be able to climb out from.

Sixteen years from now (Malia will be 30 and Sasha will be 27), I cannot look into the eyes of my suffering child and tell her, when there was still time to alter the course of her future, that we sat back and did nothing.

And that is why I'm still not certain that I can ever become a mother.

My voice is the only weapon I have. You have one, too.

 

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Growing up, I never doubted that I would someday become a mother. But over the past few years, I have begun to question whether or not I should ever have children. It has nothing to do with anxiety ...
Growing up, I never doubted that I would someday become a mother. But over the past few years, I have begun to question whether or not I should ever have children. It has nothing to do with anxiety ...
 
 
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12:52 PM on 08/01/2012
FYI, Ford didn't take a bailout, moot point but make sure you get facts straightt.
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Whistlejackett
Hey stop doing that
08:54 AM on 08/01/2012
The earth can't stand any more kids, we need to cut down on populations and manufacturing junk.
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10:28 AM on 08/01/2012
The Earth can stand quite a bit, if only we would only develop technologies to deal with these issues rather than cutting back on science research.
As it stands, few places are spending money on radical energy sources like fusion energy that would make fossil fuels as useless as wood burning steam generators.
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05:52 AM on 08/01/2012
just thought you people would like to know that im drilling another horizontal oil well right now ! its going very well thank you.
11:26 PM on 07/31/2012
As pointed out in the recent book (Chapter 6), “Technofix: Why Technology Won’t Save Us or the Environment (www.technofix.org), avoiding the birth of single child has a much greater effect on reducing CO2 emissions than environmentally conscious consumer behavior. For example, if a person were to switch to fuel efficient cars (from 20 mpg to 30 mpg), reduce the number of miles driven by one third, replace ten 75 Watt incandescent bulbs with 25 Watt energy efficient lights, replace the old refrigerator with an energy efficient model, and recycle all newspapers, magazines, glass, plastic, aluminum, and steel cans, life-time carbon dioxide emissions would be reduced by only 486 tons, which is 20 times less than the CO2 emissions avoided by choosing to have one less child. In summary, making a conscious choice to have fewer children is probably the most effective way for an individual to save the planet (for more analysis, see also Murtaugh and Schlax, “Reproduction and the Carbon Legacies of Individuals”, Global Environmental Change, Volume 19, pages 14-20, 2009).
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10:31 AM on 08/01/2012
Or develop a clean form of energy that would allow you to keep everything on without the downside of pollution.
Its called fusion, and they are working on it right now.
If governments would only shift money to an international effort, who knows how quickly we could develop this technology.
but as it stands there a couple of labs around the world trying different techniques and technologies rather than everyone working together and efficiently.
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Greg YanickThompson
11:00 PM on 07/31/2012
while i agree Sofi with your assessment of the environment which we have known about sense the 70,s , here we are anyway !! and you are asking a bought off politician to make changes !!! Mr. peace prize himself no less !!! our virus politicians are just the tip of the challenge we face in evolving into a better world ... how about this insane financial system where all aspects of our society have become enslaved to!!! from you and me to our so called elected politician,s , It is inescapable , human society has been hijacked by this thing that virus banker,s make up out of thin air ... money , and its just #.s in a bankers puter now.. yet nobody wants to even dare bring it up .. and if any of our young people challenge us on this insanity saying there are better ways of being human!! they are met with scorn and if they push it ,the end of a gun ...
10:02 PM on 07/31/2012
This article is very melodramatic, and therefore fails to get its point across.
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Greg YanickThompson
11:03 PM on 07/31/2012
melodramatic may-be , but its point was crystal clear , if we don't get our shix together and change we and our children are pooched , yea, you might not like that but even low IQ folks can see where our corp bought off politicians and there for hire lackey,s are taking us ...all at the end of a gun no less , !!! pffff
09:10 PM on 07/31/2012
Don't have one. That's smart. Adopt one. That's smart. Take a kid who needs a chance. Skip having to have a baby. There are tons of older children longing to belong.
08:00 PM on 07/31/2012
My wife and I have been married for 36 years. We considered having children, but many years ago we decided not to. At times there might be brief moments of wistful thinking, pondering the “What if . . . ?” question. However, we never really regretted the decision and as the future has unfolded we now are fervently thankful that we did not bring children into the world which is being made.

I doubt that anyone decides not to have children for a single reason. With us the environment and the unbreakable link between unending population growth and increased environmental degradation for the planet was a significant factor. Another is the fear that the world would becoming increasingly torn by wars over increasingly scarce resources. In turn this is linked to the rise of totalitarian governmental systems. Even previously relatively ope societies like the USA are moving in that direction.

On the positive side, there are many benefits to not having children. More money. Less stress. No responsibility. I believe that we are far wealthier, healthier physically and psychologically, younger looking, and happier than we ever would have been had we had children.
10:33 PM on 07/31/2012
Apparently more self-centred, too.
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Alain Posteur
07:16 PM on 07/31/2012
Dumbest article ever. Doomsday has been predicted forever...
07:56 PM on 07/31/2012
Dumbest post ever. People predicted disaster if Glass-Steagall was repealed, and they were right.
08:02 PM on 07/31/2012
Dumbest comment ever.

She is not predicting "Doomsday". She is predicting an increasingly polluted and inhospitable planet. This was predicted long, long ago and already has come true. It is just getting worse by every measurable factor.
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10:34 AM on 08/01/2012
Yes, it was predicted a long time ago. By Malthus in the 18th century.
Funny how we've managed 200 years since.
Its all about the change in technology. Better technologies, cleaner fuels, and the like.
But it requires the kind of expenditure that governments are too idiotic to spend.
Everyone is cutting on science when science is the only thing that can save us.
06:55 PM on 07/31/2012
Looking to Obama??? You've got to be kidding me! Obama is only a human being like the rest of us - he CANNOT help you. The only way the planet can avoid the inevitable which is coming fast like a big black freight train is if YOU, ME AND EVERYONE ELSE changes their lifestyles - WE are the ones that buy the mega homes, the big gas guzzling SUV's (btw sales are up) high-tech gadgets which are polluting the air as well as our bodies along with all animals, birds, insects, unnecessary junk that we buy...etc. etc..... The plastic and toxins in the oceans is truly horrifying - NO I don't think you can count on Mr. Obama....he simply does what the corporate head honchos tell him to do so he can keep on getting re-elected. His little buddy Oprah is one of the biggest hypocrites when it comes to environmental irresponsiblity - she has single handedly bought more JUNK over the years for her audiences while also having very high expectations that Obama would clean up the mess behind her. I have two kids in their twenties and believe me I have drastically changed my lifestyle over the years to a very simple one because I feel I owe them that much.
04:23 PM on 07/31/2012
=="I look to President OBama . . . to make this change."==

LOL. Obama, like all Democrats and Canadian Liberals only TALK about action. They have no intention of doing anything. They only talk about AGW to get elected and then do nothing on the subject.
07:52 PM on 07/31/2012
So vote NDP.
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10:36 AM on 08/01/2012
I do.
I voted Harper once and have been regretting it ever since.
02:12 PM on 07/31/2012
It's our very ability to adapt in the face of adversity that makes us such a successful species. For most of human history, we've teetered on the brink of extinction. We've been relentlessly pummeled by fear, discomfort, and pain. But without fail, we've soldiered on, always encouraging a new generation to take our place, come what may.

Imagine the unending dread that generations must have faced as our species fanned out across the planet - encountering unknown lands which they were ill equipped to handle. Or the tremendous weight so many of our kind must have felt while suffering under the shackles of slavery or war. But we never balked at the prospect of continuing forward and asking our children to do the same, regardless of the consequences.

While the decision to have children is incredibly personal, it seems that you're trying to use some sort of universal justification. It's a justification that flies in the face of who we've always been.

As for the weapons in your arsenal, your voice is certainly a compelling one. But so often, words carry little weight behind them. Vote with your wallet, if you truly want to change the planet. Buy an electric vehicle (ideally in a place where coal plants don't power society). Refuse to fly on an airplane. Stop using plastic tupperware containers. In a market economy, the industry is the cart, and we, the people, are the horse. We need to lead, and the politicians and big business will follow.
07:54 PM on 07/31/2012
Not every problem can be solved by the market. This idea is fundamentalist ideology at its worst. What needs to happen here is international cooperation and government regulation similar to what (more or less) solved the problems of the hole in the ozone and acid rain.
08:48 PM on 07/31/2012
Agreed! However, the market itself is also the problem. Perpetual growth with compounding money and population growth is a ridiculous concept. Economics and the "free market" have ignored the laws of biology and physics for too long, to our collective detriment.
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12:51 PM on 07/31/2012
A great choice. How can anybody even think about bringing a new life into this world knowing where it's headed? If you have the time and energy to take care of a child, then you have the time and energy to try to make a difference, environment-wise.
06:57 PM on 07/31/2012
Yet, as a father, I think a big part of being a parent for me is about helping to create a critical thinker, and a confident, courageous leader. As such, I don't consider the choice of having a child, and being socially responsible where the environment is concerned, as being mutually exclusive. No one wants a child of theirs, or any child for that matter, to suffer. But, children don't stay children for long. The job we have as adults where children are concerned, whether we've decided to become parents ourselves or not, is to make sure that children grow up to become good citizens who understand their times, and to do as much as we can to help them and each other move our civilization toward one that is rational, open-minded, adaptable, and one that is humble where our environment is concerned.