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Every Second Woman You See Has Been a Victim of Violence

09/11/2014 12:32 EDT | Updated 11/11/2014 05:59 EST
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Like most people I was disgusted when I saw the video of suspended NFL player Ray Rice punch his fiancée in the head knocking her unconscious. What offended me even more was the NFL's decision to only suspend him for 2 games, which sent a very clear message to the NFL and the North American public -- domestic violence is wrong but not that wrong.

Then, two months later, TMZ.com released the video of the violence that took place on the elevator. And all of a sudden, as if this was shocking new evidence as to what had actually happened on the elevator, the Baltimore Ravens decided to release Ray Rice from their team and the NFL decided to suspend him indefinitely from the league. Great decisions from the Ravens and the NFL, it's just a shame that a public relations nightmare made them do it.

The reality is that domestic abuse is far too common in society and that includes Canada.

According to the Canadian Women's Foundation, 50 per cent of women in Canada have experienced physical or sexual violence since the age of 16. Think about that for a minute. Look around your office, your classroom, the street your walking on; statistically every second women you see will have suffered violence. And domestic violence is not just limited to people we don't know or people we don't see. Think about your friends and your family, your co-workers, and your classmates -- any of them could be victims of domestic violence.

What is perhaps even more shocking is that on any given night, more than 3,300 women and children sleep in emergency women shelters after escaping domestic violence because it is too dangerous for them to be at home. Tragically though, not everyone is lucky enough to escape -- currently in Canada, a woman is murdered every six days by their intimate partner.

As you can clearly see, violence against women is prevalent in Canadian society yet often times we never hear anything about it.

Domestic violence will continue unless we, as a society demand that it stop. We need our political leaders, judiciary, and sports and entertainment industries to take domestic violence seriously. A two-game suspension for knocking out your fiancée is not only insulting but criminal and should be treated as such. Our politicians should be championing legislation that cracks down on domestic violence and our justice systems should be ensuring that it will not be tolerated on any circumstances.

In a press release Obama stated that "real men don't hit women" and I couldn't agree more. But what should have been said is that real men do not take part in, do not tolerate, and will never ignore the true tragedy of violence against women.

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