
There are many reasons people homeschool, but the two most common are religious belief and dissatisfaction with the public system.
Not everyone calls it homeschooling, and not everyone approaches non-traditional education the same way. Homeschooling is what's happening when a child is educated at home by the parent or under the parent's guidance. Usually, structured (often commercial) curriculum is used.
Others prefer an approach called unschooling (or deschooling). In this scenario, children determine what they will learn, as well as when and how they will learn it. That is, children are trusted to know what's best for them, and are in charge of their own education. Some call this approach Life Learning, because learning is a unique experience that begins at birth and doesn't end until we die. I think the tag line on the Life Learning Magazine explains it best: "Personalized, non-coercive, active, interest-led learning from life."
Homeschooling is legal in all Canadian provinces and territories, though every one of them has something to say about how to go about it. In Ontario, you can consult Policy/Program Memorandum No. 131 to find out how to do it (legally).
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Officially, homeschoolers are estimated at 1 per cent of all Canadian children and 4 per cent of American children. Some researchers think these statistics don't reflect what's really going on, arguing that many families who opt-out of the public system are off-the-grid, or "underground." Makes sense, doesn't it? I mean, why school your children yourselves, if you're going to feel controlled by the authority you've opted away from?
Before anyone gets their kids-have-to-get-into-a-good-university unmentionables in a knot, research shows that children who are homeschooled outperform those who attend public school on standardized tests (tossing another educational bombshell around here), and in their transition to post-secondary education.
Now, I know there are some who might use this finding as an argument against public education, but "the system" is apparently not the telling factor here. Nope. It's parents. Homeschooled children tend to outperform traditionally-educated kids, because their parents are more involved and the kids respond to that involvement.
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That being said, children whose parents are very involved in their public schooling do just as well as those whose parents choose structured homeschooling.
While it would be easy to fall into mummy-guilt here, I'm not going to (and neither should you). My daughters went to public school, and despite the fact that I singled-mummed, went to university when they were little, and started a business while they were adolescents (in short, was crazy busy too much of the time), they did just fine in public school and in post-secondary. And now, they're kicking butt as adults.
But I do heartily applaud parents who explore and embrace options for their children's early life experience -- whether that's teaching them at home with a pre-packaged curriculum; allowing them to direct their own learning, according to what their interests are; or taking them sailing around the world for a year or two.
Sure, those who don't experience traditional institutionalized education -- or even structured homeschooling -- may not do as well on university entrance tests, but I'd bet they could teach us a thing or twenty about meaningful living.
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Written By: Diane Duff, Yummy Mummy Club
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I recall that I felt it more important to do well for teachers that I liked and respected. Not always because they were warm and fuzzy for the students. Though I suppose that is more important the younger the student is. You can sense when a teacher actually cares about you. Or when they set some example that you admire in some way. You don't want to disappoint them then. You actually feel like you can disappoint them. This helps you raise your own expectations.
The range of inspiration from my teachers was wide. Some I almost wanted to fail for, to give them less than nothing. Others, I went beyond my desire to learn for.
It is impossible for a teacher to inspire the wide variety of students. But it does matter.
We should all have such a start.
From personal experience the largest pitfall of home schooled relatives (for religious reasons), was that they were not prepared to deal with people, and despite a firm christian school upbringing fell easily into "sin" and they ended up addicted to drugs as they hadn't been taught how to tell when someone is lying. So Traditional schools do teach more than the 3 R's.
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