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Why Do Home-schooled Children Outperform? Their Parents

Posted: 08/30/2012 7:16 am

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There are many reasons people homeschool, but the two most common are religious belief and dissatisfaction with the public system.

Not everyone calls it homeschooling, and not everyone approaches non-traditional education the same way. Homeschooling is what's happening when a child is educated at home by the parent or under the parent's guidance. Usually, structured (often commercial) curriculum is used.

Others prefer an approach called unschooling (or deschooling). In this scenario, children determine what they will learn, as well as when and how they will learn it. That is, children are trusted to know what's best for them, and are in charge of their own education. Some call this approach Life Learning, because learning is a unique experience that begins at birth and doesn't end until we die. I think the tag line on the Life Learning Magazine explains it best: "Personalized, non-coercive, active, interest-led learning from life."

Homeschooling is legal in all Canadian provinces and territories, though every one of them has something to say about how to go about it. In Ontario, you can consult Policy/Program Memorandum No. 131 to find out how to do it (legally).

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Officially, homeschoolers are estimated at 1 per cent of all Canadian children and 4 per cent of American children. Some researchers think these statistics don't reflect what's really going on, arguing that many families who opt-out of the public system are off-the-grid, or "underground." Makes sense, doesn't it? I mean, why school your children yourselves, if you're going to feel controlled by the authority you've opted away from?

Before anyone gets their kids-have-to-get-into-a-good-university unmentionables in a knot, research shows that children who are homeschooled outperform those who attend public school on standardized tests (tossing another educational bombshell around here), and in their transition to post-secondary education.

Now, I know there are some who might use this finding as an argument against public education, but "the system" is apparently not the telling factor here. Nope. It's parents. Homeschooled children tend to outperform traditionally-educated kids, because their parents are more involved and the kids respond to that involvement.

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That being said, children whose parents are very involved in their public schooling do just as well as those whose parents choose structured homeschooling.

While it would be easy to fall into mummy-guilt here, I'm not going to (and neither should you). My daughters went to public school, and despite the fact that I singled-mummed, went to university when they were little, and started a business while they were adolescents (in short, was crazy busy too much of the time), they did just fine in public school and in post-secondary. And now, they're kicking butt as adults.

But I do heartily applaud parents who explore and embrace options for their children's early life experience -- whether that's teaching them at home with a pre-packaged curriculum; allowing them to direct their own learning, according to what their interests are; or taking them sailing around the world for a year or two.

Sure, those who don't experience traditional institutionalized education -- or even structured homeschooling -- may not do as well on university entrance tests, but I'd bet they could teach us a thing or twenty about meaningful living.

Spill it: Do you homeschool? Would you? Could you?

Written By: Diane Duff, Yummy Mummy Club

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09:17 PM on 08/30/2012
I think it is very dependent on how the child views who ever is teaching them. A home schooled child is most likely to have at least one parent that is very involved and caring in the child's life. That will foster a desire in the child to please that parent, make them proud. The child will wish to excel.
I recall that I felt it more important to do well for teachers that I liked and respected. Not always because they were warm and fuzzy for the students. Though I suppose that is more important the younger the student is. You can sense when a teacher actually cares about you. Or when they set some example that you admire in some way. You don't want to disappoint them then. You actually feel like you can disappoint them. This helps you raise your own expectations.
The range of inspiration from my teachers was wide. Some I almost wanted to fail for, to give them less than nothing. Others, I went beyond my desire to learn for.
It is impossible for a teacher to inspire the wide variety of students. But it does matter.
09:26 PM on 08/30/2012
It also occurs to me that public school benefits greatly from parents being involved as well. Don't separate it. Talk about school with the child every day. Discuss what they are learning. Fully bridge the public school into the home and connect it to you, so the child connects it to you as well. Keep a close eye on their marks as close as possible to real time.
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06:16 PM on 08/30/2012
Because the child is the sum of the parts. More input, more options, more knowledge.
We should all have such a start.
05:11 PM on 08/30/2012
I'm a fan of homeschooling in theory but have no desire to homeschool teach as my career option. I love the idea that in a home school environment, kids can learn at their own pace and not have to slow down or keep up to a classroom full of children with diverse levels of abilities. The 'teacher' student ratio for homeschool can never be matched in the public school. However, not every parent is equipped, either personality or skills-wise to be a home school teacher.
11:46 AM on 08/30/2012
I don't have kids yet, but I've given a lot of thought to my future children's education. I would be open to home-schooling or a private school with a curriculum I could get behind and small class sizes. Regardless of what happens, I want to be involved in their education and enrich it however I can. I have fond memories of my Mother taking me to museums and giving me history books to read. I wasn't too happy with the math workbooks she made me go through in the summers, but I lived ;)
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10:36 AM on 08/30/2012
The most important part of going to a traditional school is the social aspect, I think a good blend of home and traditional schooling is best. As one on one attention is best for learning, and a large problem with kids at traditional schools is parents have abdicated parenting to the teachers. So the best of both worlds should be found.

From personal experience the largest pitfall of home schooled relatives (for religious reasons), was that they were not prepared to deal with people, and despite a firm christian school upbringing fell easily into "sin" and they ended up addicted to drugs as they hadn't been taught how to tell when someone is lying. So Traditional schools do teach more than the 3 R's.
11:49 AM on 08/30/2012
I know a lot of home-schoolers who's parents were quite vigilant about socializing and it was in the form of sports and other activities. They are very smart, have tons of friends and great jobs. The two home-schoolers I know that were isolated because their Mother was terrified that they would be negatively influenced in public schools ended up being drug dealers on house arrest.
09:29 AM on 08/30/2012
In a 6 hour school day kids spend about an hour 'workin' the rest is either waiting for someone else to learn or social mayham.
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09:29 AM on 08/30/2012
Those who are home schooled are mediochre at best. The more intelligent students do better in public school. If these people intend to go to university, Home schooling by a parent who is a wannabe teacher who had little to no formal education themselves (as most are) is a recipe for disaster in a university environment. Home schooled students can do no better than a community college education, and are absolute failures at university. Home schooling should be abolished as a form of child abuse.
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Kapjam
10:22 AM on 08/30/2012
Home school, the original oxymoron.
10:29 AM on 08/30/2012
and you have links to facts that back this up?

http://school.familyeducation.com/home-schooling/educational-testing/41081.html
01:03 PM on 08/30/2012
Don't bother feeding the troll, Peter. he's hoping for your reaction ;)
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08:25 AM on 08/30/2012
I would have preferred to be home schooled. I went through hell at school from grade 1 to graduating high school. When in grade 3 or 4, on March break, we(the family) went to Daytona Beach for the holiday. We were only going to stay 2 weeks, but us kids talked our parents in to staying longer. We brought our school work with us, and did 3 hours per day of it. We waited until we got home for our teacher to mark it. I got the highest grades I had ever received, and I was two weeks ahead of the class when I returned to school. If I had kids, I would definitely choose home schooling, and as for interaction with their peers, there is Scouts, Hockey, Baseball etc...